Here you will find questions asked of the Gaidin and Gaidar of the Grey Tower, and their tounge-in-cheek answers. A Male Trainee Asks . . . How can I avoid the Aes Sedai icy stare? When I go to the tavern, I can't keep the girls off of me. How can I tell them that I just want to sit and have a drink? The Accepted I have my eye on keeps tying my up with flows of Air. What does this mean? My bunkmate is flashier with his sword, how can I get some attention? The Aes Sedai seem to bond Asha'man all the time, how can show that I can protect one just as well or better? Where is the sa'sara room? Someone short-sheeted my bed last night. How do I find out who it was, and what's the best way to get them back? There's an Accepted that I'm interested in, but she wants me to teach her how to use a sword. I'm worried that if I do, she won't be interested in Bonding me afterwards. What should I do? Why do girls keep hitting me with brooms? How do you know you've found the Right Person to be bonded to? If my Aes Sedai has more than one Warder, how do we arrange sleeping quarters? What is it like being bonded to a Green with more than one Warder? One of my fellow Trainees suggested that I go ask one of the Aiel Ji'alantar about a game of Maiden's Kiss. Is that a good idea, or was he trying to get me into trouble? A Female Trainee Asks . . . How can I become a Swish-Sister? How do I swish? Where is the sa'sara room? I've accepted two bonding proposals, what should I do? There is an Aes Sedai I want to protect and her Warder gave me a marriage propsal. If I accept this relationship with each of them, would I be walking into trouble? The Green Sisters keep inviting me to the Band of Brothers, what should I do? All of the Aes Sedai seem to prefer male Warders over female, how can I show them that I'm just as good? Which weapon is best? The other Trainees mock me for being a girl. What should I do? Which makes a better bondmate: an Aes Sedai, or an Asha'man? One of the male trainees is grouchy because I beat him in a spar. What's the best way to handle this? I know swords are popular, but I just don't like them. Is there a good alternative? Or is sword something I really need to learn? One of my friends is sneaking out of the Tower to see a boy in Elman's Creek. Should I try to stop her? How? An Accepted Asks . . . I have my eye on a certain Trainee, and I would like to ask him to be my Warder. What should I do? My father doesn’t approve of the man I wish to Bond, what should I do? I’ve been fooling around with the new recruits in the stables, and my Warder is jealous! What should I do? What are the pros/cons of masking the bond?